I was reading a discussion a friend of mine wrote and I was reminded of something I recognized one day on my long commute to work. As I was on the expressway with white knuckles and rock and roll playing loud. I thought what are you doing? As if the bumper to bumper traffic at breaknecking speeds was not enough to get my heart pumping. I was listening to heart pounding music as well. It was a revelation for me. I turned the station both literally and figuratively from that day on.
What can you do to avoid your partner from breaking up with you, if you fear this in your future? Probably not a lot. Before you even try to avoid it, maybe you should stop and think about your relationship. Are you really fulfilled with the relationship or does it just make you feel safe. Feeling safe is not the same as feeling in love.
The song was recorded and broadcast live to hundreds of millions of viewers in one of the first-ever global satellite link-ups in the summer of 1967. (coincidentally dubbed The Summer of Love.) An all star cast of extras joined in the singing of the chorus, including Mick Jagger, Eric Clapton, Graham Nash and Marianne Faithful.
If the wedding ceremony is planned to take place in a traditional manner, then slow-moving traditional songs can be played. Though, it is not a hard and fast rule to opt for traditional songs. Some contemporary trap beats can be played too. There are lots of songs that can certainly make the ceremony quite lively. Another good option could be to hire a pianist. The pianist can play at a slower tempo and could give the feeling of the start of the ceremony.
It’s very easy to wallow in self-pity after you’ve broken up with your partner. Some people deal with the break up by indulging in many negative behaviors: emotional eating excessive drinking not being able to eat to etc. Others become desperate and start contacting their ex constantly professing their eternal love for them promising they’ll change and so on.
At times, you may feel that some part of you is feeling at odds with your partner. Such times call for compassion and silence. It may not be fully honest, but it would enrich the integrity of your relationship. And you will realise over the period, that every time you are non-confronting, you have affirmed your faith with one other. This does not mean that you should not speak about your hurts and disapprovals. You must, but without defensiveness and harsh words.
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